Monday, September 25, 2017

September 25, 2017

Be a Champion and Build Resiliency

When you were a child, who was your Champion? What adult in your influenced you? Who stood up for you through thick and thin? Encouraged you? Was it your parent? An aunt or uncle, grandparent? Teacher? Family Friend?

At our Back to School Night evening, I touched upon a couple of very important topics that are near and dear to me. First of all I addressed I addressed the concept of the role that all adults can play in our children’s lives - the role of Champion. Secondly I talked about how to build resiliency in our kids -- how to focus on effort rather than test scores or grades, and how to praise specifically for perseverance.
The two are closely linked.

Dr. Robert Brooks says: “Research studies have found that adults who overcame adversity and misfortune have at least one thing in common: someone in their life who believed in them and stood by them.”

Psychologist Julius Segal comments along the same lines: “…One factor for resilience turns out to be the presence in their lives of a charismatic adult—a person with whom they can identify and from whom they gather strength.  And in a surprising number of cases, that person turns out to be a teacher.”

A great article on resiliency that quotes both Segal and Brooks:

We know is that a Champions in a student’s life can be parents, teachers, relatives, or neighbors -- any adult who has a strong supportive relationship with a child. That includes volunteers at school – which is why I so strongly support Project Cornerstone’s ABC Reader Program. For more information, click on this link:

 We have a strong program at our school – and always welcome more caring adults to read to our kids. Please let me know if you would like more information and would like to volunteer. We are all Champions here at school! 

“Every child deserves a champion — an adult who will never give up on them, who understands the power of connection, and insists that they become the best that they can possibly be.”

— Rita F. Pierson

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